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How To Easily Build Your
Self-Confidence
Liberate yourself - Go out and do what you like! - How long it
has been since you last went to have a walk among the pines -
something that you loved as a child? How long has it been when
you walked hand in hand with your friend to the bakery and
tossed a coin to decide what to buy?
These might seem very simple things but these simple things
have the power to add on to build great confidence and
fulfilment. Life if see is actually quite simple. What gets a
bit too complex though is to remain simple. Isn’t it? Just as
small drops of water make the mighty ocean, the little things
you enjoy doing have the capability to turn you into a
storehouse of confidence.
When God made you, He put a desire in your heart and bestowed
onto you the capability to achieve it. However, in the process
of growing up, you forgot what exactly your purpose was, what
is that you liked and what is that you enjoyed doing. It does
happen with lots and lots of people who do feel like breaking
free but are too tied up in their day to day responsibilities
that it gets impossible for them to spare even 10 minutes to
reflect on their lives, their direction, their dreams and
goals. It’s our duty to clear the mess that prevents us from
hearing to our heart.
The conversations with your heart should keep getting clearer
and the best way to do it is to find time to do what you enjoy.
And since you enjoy doing that activity, it straightaway means
that you have all the aptitude and intelligence necessary to do
the job effortlessly even though you may not realize it.
Find your flock - Birds of a feather flock together. You must
find out people with whom you enjoy being. They are certainly
the people of your frequency and the energy flow between you
and them is natural. Life becomes easy when you are among the
people who are more or less on the same plane of thought as you
and it’s easier to relate to them. They seem to understand you
and vice versa thus creating conditions for healthy
conversations. A good conversation is a very healthy exercise
and an important need of our mind. We all want our ideas to be
heard and appreciated and a good company provides platform for
the same.
Set Achievable Goals and Go for it! - The journey of a thousand
miles begins with a single step. The idea is to begin with a
small single step that can then further developed into giant
strides. Learn to do the work at hand rather than to overwhelm
oneself by looking at the entirety of a mammoth looking task.
Just like the soil underneath your foot, the top of mountain
too would someday be under your step. The only way to do
something is to GO FOR IT! No matter how small the progress is
the focus should be on completing a task successfully even
though it’s a small task. A series of big uncompleted task is a
sure shot way to depression. Break a big task into a list of
small tasks to be completed.
Tick off from your list each job successfully completed. A
completed task no matter how small it is gives a sense of
achievement that boosts our confidence and equips us with more
energy to try a bigger task.
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